Sometimes I ask myself the question: what things would I like to change about myself? Occasionally then you come across yourself again in life and you think, I would like to change that about myself. Usually it is about a trait or a habit. I’m not talking about looks. Because nowadays we can change what we want on our face and body. But to change something about our character is a lot harder. Because of course we have been doing certain things all our lives.
Changes are hard
What I would like to change is that I have to think before I say anything. Or rather, think carefully before I respond. I have little patience, the misery starts with that. Haha. So I often react to certain things too impulsively. And now I have to say that when I am tired it is really bad. Then I have even less patience and I respond even more on friendly, not to say rude. And I know that if I think for a moment, or perhaps an hour, or read something better, then there is no problem at all. But I go to the defense mode too quickly and I often respond too rude. And I hate that! So I would really like to change that about myself.
But how do I change?
I have no idea. Should I promise myself a cake every time I think before I talk or write? Or a skirt or dress, that would motivate me better I think. No that sounds all super materialistic. Which I am…..no doubt about that, I love ,,things,, and stuff! Or should I just accept that I am who I am. And to hope that the people I am being rude to know me better or will get to know me better. If they still want to of course! Haha! I blame it on being Dutch! No really. But I do my best to think twice! Know that!
Let’s see what I am wearing today to keep it airy!
A pre loved King Louie dress! Again? Yes again! I can’t stop buying pre loved dresses! Oh my, I blame Suzanne for that! This one is such a simple one, but the fit is perfect, it has pockets and a v-neck. What more can a girl ask for! And what about the sandals! Gosh, I love these. They are from my favorite brand of shoes and boots, Tamaris,( no sponsored post) and they are so very comfortable! And that is all it takes! A dress and gorgeous shoes. And a £1 ring from a antique shop in Lewes! And a smile!
I would really appreciate it if you would share my outfit on Pinterest! Just hoover over the photo!