Well, here we are back again! I didn’t post last Friday because I had spent the whole week in the hospital. I had been suffering from extreme shortness of breath for a few weeks and had already been taken to the emergency room once before. But now I had to stay because the medication I was receiving at home wasn’t working, so I needed antibiotics via IV. I was so happy to be allowed home after five days. But I’m not quite there yet. I feel like I’ve lost a huge amount of muscle strength. Of course, I’ve lost some weight again. My face is deathly pale and I look like a ghost. Well, surely that will all be fine again? Just say yes….
The featured photo is from 4 years ago. I use older photos for this because I don’t think a selfie looks good as a feature. So I pick an old photo where I still think the outfit is really nice.
Back home again, that’s the best
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- Hospital food, yek.
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- Treats, flowers, body lotion, cards. I was spoiled!
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- Breakfast at home on Sunday!
I received a huge number of visitors and my nightstand was full of treats. I feel so blessed. So, I was allowed to go home on Friday, and I quietly tidied up all my stuff, took a shower, and washed my hair. That makes you feel a bit better anyway. And in the evening, we thoroughly enjoyed the fact that I was home again, just the two of us.
We already had plans for the weekend, and we went ahead with them. After all, the distraction and company help with recovery too. So on Saturday evening, we went to play cards at my brother and sister-in-law’s. We did lose, though… On Sunday, we went to my sister and brother-in-law’s and stayed for dinner. When you’ve had hospital food for a week, fresh vegetables taste so good!
Monday marked the start of the normal week again. Gerben went to work, so I had to get started on my own. I still feel very unsteady on my feet and get tired very quickly. Monday was a bit different, though, because I also need to start structuring my days differently. I do too much, and that is too tiring for my body. So I still need to find a way to manage that. Also, I was asked several times in the hospital if I wanted to do rehabilitation again. Pfff, 3 months as an inpatient, I really don’t fancy that. But I do have to start thinking about it.
Working on my recovery
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- Saturday outfit, monochrome burgundy.
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- Sunday’s outfit, barrel jeans and a blazer.
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- Wednesday’s outfit, wide leg jeans and burgundy sneakers and jumper.
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- Thursday’s outfit, again the barrel jeans and brown jumper.
Tuesday and Wednesday were pretty much the same. Gentle exercise, at home, doing a bit of housework. Making sure not to tire myself out too much. The pulmonary nurse called, it’s so nice to have a direct line of communication with her. I ordered some lingerie and clothes. Hopefully, they fit. On Thursday, I had an appointment at the hairdresser. I had it scheduled last week, so it was really necessary. But I did find it nerve-wracking to go out on my own and I felt very insecure.
I even thought about cancelling the appointment. But I went and it went pretty well. I just felt so wobbly on the bicycle. Jeez, I’ve really lost a lot of muscle strength. But my hair looks good again! I really have such a super hairdresser. I don’t actually even have to say anything, she always dyes and cuts it perfectly! Well, just try finding one like that. But I’ve got a little bit of self-confidence back. I really need to, because I’m planning to work out at the physio again next week. But first, the weekend! Make the most of it!
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- Gerben made risotto with aspargus, salmon and green peas. So delicious.
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- My sister and brother-in law
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- At the hairdresser, but I guess you already saw that…..
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Nancy, I was reading your earlier post concerning your health am glad that you are feeling quite well. About your observation of the disappearing of bloggers and thinning string of comments. I myself took more than a year off blogging just because i kind of lost it. Maybe the other bloggers feel the same. I am happy to be back. Have a wonderful weekend Anna
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And I am happy to see you back Anna! Thanks!
Sorry to hear about your time in hospital. Having to do less during the day will be awful for you, you’re so active. I’m sure you’ll make it work and find it satisfying.
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Yes it is not something I look forward too, but it is necessary. Thanks Gail.
So bummed that you had a hospital stay but glad you are back home and finding ways to stay busy. I love getting my hair done too. Love all these looks you wore and praying that you get stronger. Thanks for sharing your journey. You are an inspiration to me!
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Oh thank you so much Kathrine! That is so very kind!
Dear Nancy – what a tough time you’ve having but what a great family and lots of love you have around you. Sending love and hugs and wishing you a better week ahead. Just go easy!
Pamela
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Thank you very much Pamela, that is very kind!
I am glad you are feeling better and got lots of yummy treats!
Jennifer
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Thanks Jennifer.
Nancy, I am so glad that are you starting to feel better. But remember to be patient with yourself and your body. I know that you hate sitting still but sometimes you have to! I absolutely adore that dress in your featured photo. I remember when you first shared it, I fell in love with it. The print is so good! I hope you have a relaxing weekend, my friend. Big hugs to you and Gerben!
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Yeah yeah yeah, haha. I do my best. Thank you very much love!
Oh Nancy, so sorry you had to spend those days in the hospital. I am very glad to hear you are back home and getting into your familiar routine, only a little slower. It is difficult for your mind to be patient with your healing body! Your family and friends are such wonderful assets. I’m so happy that you have them to support you it such a lovely way. Sending my best wishes for your healing. Thanks so much for continuing to share, and hosting the link up. Hope you have a nice relaxing weekend!
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Yes I am really grateful for my family and friends. Thank you very much Di.
So sorry to hear you had to spend the whole week in the hospital. I’m glad your back home and hope you start to build that muscle strength back up. I know it’s frustrating to have to have take things slower. How sweet that you were spoiled by all your visitors. Hopefully that made the time pass a bit quicker.
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It sure did Joanne. Especially during the day. Thank you very much.
Love the dress Nancy, that’s a fab design x thanks for hosting. Jacqui.
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Thanks Jacqui.
Happy to hear you are back home and I know the feeling of being home after the hospital to have a proper shower and wash my hair. Your 4 year old photo looks like recent photos, you haven’t changed!
Blessings!
❤️carmen
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Haha, I wish Carmen, but thank you!
I hope you’ll be gaining your strength again soon.
Not having to have hospital food should help with that, too. The risotto Gerben made looks so much better!
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Haha indeed Cat!
Nancy, I’m glad you’re back home. The hospital is just not the place to get rest, good food, or comfort even though they’re taking such good care of you. There really is no place like home for getting better. I hope your weekend is fun just like the last one. Thanks so much for the link up!
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Indeed Marsha. We have a very quite weekend which is also good.
Hi, Nancy – You were so very much blessed indeed to have love showered upon you in the hospital! I hope you get everything you need for restored health. Burgundy looks like a flattering color for you. Best wishes – Angie, http://www.yourtrueselfblog.com
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Thank you very much Angie!
I hope you feel better this weekend and a little better every day. I am glad you take time to get dressed despite not feeling well and that you were able to go to the hairdresser. Take care!
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Thank you very much Mireille.
So glad to hear you were back at home this week and had some semblance of normalcy. I hope you continue to feel better and love your colorful dress!
I hope you are having a great week so far!
Amber
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Thank you very much for your kind words Amber!
I’m so sorry to hear you were in the hospital! I’m glad you are home again and feeling better. I love your burgundy and leopard outfits this week. That dress is stunning!
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Thank you very much Laura!
I’m glad you are back home and feeling better. You will get your strength back in no time! Thinking of you!
Jill – Doused in Pink
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Thank you very much Jill.
Oh Nancy, so sorry to hear that you were in the hospital, but glad you’re back at home. I can relate to being frustrated with not recovering more quickly—I am dealing with a pinched nerve in my back and have a long road to recovery ahead. Sending healing energy to you and hope you continue to feel better!
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Oh sending them right back at you Cheryl! I hope you won’t have to many pain of it.
Gosh, five days in hospital must have been so hard, but I’m so happy that you’ve been well looked after and are now safe and sound at home. And even then, you still got up and got dressed and took OOTDs! You’re amazing, Nancy! Take care of yourself, don’t do too much! Sending lots of healing hugs,
Suzy xx
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Thank you very much Suzy!
Oh my goodness Nancy, so sorry to hear that you’ve been in hospital for 5 days. It must feel so wonderful to be back home as home cooking and your own bed is always the best.
You take care and sending loads of love and hugs across the English Channel to you. I hope you regain your strength very soon X
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Thank you very much dear Penny!
I’m glad to hear you’re out of hospital…and as for hospital food, well it seems to be awful wherever you go. I hope you’re getting your strength back, it will take time. I’m impressed that you still look so stylish and took ootd photos!
Emma xxx
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Haha, but in my face I see that I struggle. Thanks Emma.