I wanted to show you this dress, which you might have seen before, in a different style than the first time. Although I’ve only really worn it with sneakers, this version is a bit more formal. Perfect for going out for dinner or a party(as if I have parties….). I also want to give you a glimpse into my life. What’s happening and what I’ve been up to. Because there is nothing much to say about the dress right! It’s black, it’s simple and I love it.
What’s going on in my life
It’s actually been quite busy and stressful since the green light conversation for the transplant list at the hospital. The conversation itself wasn’t that good in my head. Because I have plaque on my coronary artery, they told me that it is a extra risk for the surgery. They were doubting wether to put me on the list or not. So while Gerben heard that they decided to do so, I only heard the bad news and was totally stressed and angry after the conversation.
We were going to a festival the next day and I did not even want to go anymore. In the evening I decided to go anyway. While we were driving the next day to the village we stayed during the festival weekend, we got a call from the hospital saying I hadn’t had a blood test and had to go back.
Well, that ended up being Monday after the festival. We were supposed to stay at the festival Sunday night, but we drove home Sunday evening and then to the hospital on Monday—a two-hour drive there, a fifteen-minute blood test, and a two-hour drive back.
Different style same dress, but we are not talking outfits today
Then we were told there were extensive construction plans next door and behind us. We live in the middle of the village, but completely free. They’re going to build apartments next door. Now, we do plan to move again, (after a transplant) but those construction plans aren’t exactly ideal after a transplant and then having to recover for a year afterward. I mean, all the dust you get from construction.
So that’s stressful. Then it turned out Castor, our Maine Coon, is a kidney patient. Well, he had to go to the vet several times. It didn’t always go smoothly.
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Oh my, that’s a lot on your plate.
I found the pre-transplant “planning” state very stressful at times, all the exams, so much talking and a lot to take in (also I was still working full-time then and had dialysis). I really hope things will go well for you. That’s too bad about the construction 🙁
Good thoughts for Castor as well. That too is something I have own experiences with, kidney disease in cats and pulled teeth.
Hang in there and hopefull you can relax for a bit now.
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Oh wow, you were still working while you had dialysis? That’s heavy.. Thank you very much for your lovely comment.
I love how you styled this black dress! So chic Nancy. I am so sorry about all the stress going on with your transplant and your kitty. I pray that you can rest and recharge before all the craziness. Have a wonderful birthday my friend! XO
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Oh thank you very much Kathrine!
Love the dress!
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Oh wow, Nancy, what a lot to contend with: cataracts and the big transplant. Then the building next to where you live and your beloved cat. Sending healing light to you and hoping you can chill just a little bit as it’s all very stressful. Take a breathe and absolutely take a break from blogging as well. We will still be there for you – and we care a lot.
Sending lots of love to you from across the English channel. XXX
Wow, that’s a lot to deal with all at once, Nancy! Sending you the best of luck with your surgeries, your cat, and the construction situation. Hope you have a really nice break and look forward to seeing you again later down the road.
A lot going on in Nancy land! I feel for you, but take it one step at a time and you have Gerben’s strength to lean on. And by the way looking so good in your favorite black! Thinking of you with love
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Oh man, Nancy you’ve got so much on your mind! I’m so sorry life is sucking a bit right now. I hope everything works out for the best I hope your holiday is incredibly relaxing and stress free, my friend. And have a wonderful birthday on Sunday!
Huge hugs
Suzy xx
Thanks for hosting. You look super in this dress Nancy. Have a great weekend and do join my linkup, it’s a day late! Jacqui
Oh wow, Nancy, what a stressful time you’ve had of it. And then the construction plans on top of all the medical stuff! I can totally relate to that! Anyway, I hope you’ll have a relaxing holiday. We are going on holiday as well, as from tomorrow. xxx
I sure hope you get some rest: that is a lot to deal with. My mom had 5 stents put in a couple weeks ago and yesterday she asked how blocked her arteries had all been: it’s a miracle she was alive! I have been on phone calls with her doctors/nurses this morning making sure about the medicine they want her to take and not take. That exhausting too! Take care! You look fantastic in this dress and I love your choice of accessories especially that gold necklace!
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Well, you all have certainly been busy and I bet frustrated with all these things happening. I hope you enjoy your holiday! I am thinking of you often and praying for your eventual transplant!
xo,
Kellyann
You definitely deserve a holiday after all that.
Sending love and hugs
Xoxo
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Oh, Nancy what a lot to contend with at once! I hope you have a nice vacation break and can de-stress and take it easy. And happy birthday to you! I am thinking of you and sending you well wishes. With all that is going on, you are still looking fabulous in black! Thanks for hosting the link. up. Enjoy your blogging break, we will be here for you when you get back!
Oh wow; that is a whole lot going on all at once and it does quite stressful to deal with it all. I sure hope you manage to get some restful and relaxing vacations days in!
Nancy, I love this drapey black dress on you! I hope you have a relaxing vacation and are able to escape some of this stress for a bit. Wouldn’t it be nice if it’s all worked out when you’re back? 😉 Take care!
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Hi, Nancy – I hope you have a wonderful vacation and that everything goes right! You look gorgeous as always in that black dress. Thanks for sharing – Angie, http://www.yourtrueselfblog.com
So much stress, you deserve a relaxing vacation! Happy birthday!
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Happy birthday, Nancy! It’s probably your birthday as I write this because I’m late reading blogs! I cannot imagine the stress you’re under and having to wait until a transplant is available. Then, you add construction! We have lived through two construction sites, and you’re right about the dust. I hope Castor rebounds and is doing better with the teeth gone. I hope you find something fun to do and relax doing for your vacation. Thanks for the link up!
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I love your dress and hope you enjoy a restful vacation, Nancy! Sounds like a lot going on right now.
I hope you are having a great week so far!
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I hope you had a happy birthday! You certainly deserve it after all the stress you have been through lately. I’m so sorry to hear about your cat and the potential construction. I hope and pray it gets delayed! FIngers crossed your vacation is restful and relaxing!
Oh my goodness Nancy, you have do have a lot going on right now. I’m sorry life is a bit shitty at the moment. I hope you enjoy your vacation and get some time to relax. Sending big hugs to you!
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